*If they still can't get off that subject then questions about hygiene and then explaining douching ? In fact most of them freely admitted they have or have wanted to have anal sex with their girlfriends.
![prison porn gay prison porn gay](https://di1-ph.ypncdn.com/videos/202007/28/337076361/thumbs_5/8(m=eKw7Kgaaaa)(mh=dPDvWjP0jNukDd9V).jpg)
![prison porn gay prison porn gay](https://pics.porn300.com/thumbs/c/7/8/1/6/c7816531d5d03c40bf541b82416ba78ec473aeb2.mp4/improved/31.jpg)
I had some people tell me that they didn't know any gay people outside prison or were even homophobic but that knowing me had helped them realise that gay people had a role and a purpose to play in life and can be loyal honest friends. I also ended up being a bit of an unofficial counselor to other prisoners who felt that because I was gay I was better at listening to their problems and giving them sensible advice. A lot of the guys respected that I was just open and honest and true to myself. The equalities team were great, I became an equalities rep and they made some changes that I asked for (such as putting up posters for the bent bars project). The only negatives were the occasional bit of misogyny or inappropriate sexual comments, or even being flashed at?. I thought life would be hard and I'd get abuse but actually I just got a lot of genuine questions and good natured banter. I was the only openly gay prisoner on main wings. I ended up spending a year on remand (due to covid) before having my case dismissed. I understand it's an AmA but I was also a gay prisoner in the UK.